dni

• -20
• neurotypical straight people
• fem / incels
• anti-recovery
• anti-cringe
• anti-doubles / gatekeepers
• factkins systems irls etc i dont care

specific dni

• you unironically text with proper grammar
• you cannot communicate your needs or enforce your boundaries
• you are not ready to be vulnerable and divulge personal details about yourself
• you are TOO silly??? guys i luv silly!! but if it inhibits your ability / desire to have intellectual convos dni

synpaths

lots of important and general information about me (such as my interests) can be found on my main carrd!!!

hi! im buddy im 23, i use any pronouns, and i live in the midwest usa (est)
i am a furry, stoner, and recovering neet (i am still permanently brainrotted / chronically online though)
i am currently going to school to study computer stuff but honestly im still not entirely sure what i wanna do!

i have manyyyy interests and my hyperfixations vary depending on triggers / recentness of discovery!!
i play lots of overwatch and cookie run kingdom! im a mercy/moira main (and i love other mercy/moira mains too dw!)
however i am constantly looking for new games to play! i am sick of overwatch

im lookin for fellow Lone Wolves (aka those who arent popular / dont have many friends)
and those whose lives feel sort of uncertain rn! not in a bad way but just in an "idk" type of way ..
im intimidated by people who know everything abt their future since thats not where im at yet personally

ill try 2 sum up my personal boundaries as much as i can because i know its a lot
but boundaries are super important to me for ANY kind of relationship and i feel like its important to talk about them asap!
(however if you cant think of any boundaries youd like to set now thats okay!!)

• please be patient w me! i am Quite mentally ill and on the autistic spectrum

i will reciprocate all of the patience and kindness you show me as well!!

• i do not like to use my voice or join voice chat for a number of reasons

please please pleaseee DO NOT ASK me to vc (unless you just wanna listen to music or sit in silence together or smth!!)

• try to use tone indicators w me whenever you deem they might be fit / helpful

if u forget sometimes thats literally fine! worst case scenario i will just ask for your tone and you can certainly do the same for me!

• i am okay w brief vents! but if you need to explicitly vent please ask before doing so

i am not emotionally available all of the time because i am Hypersensitive .... i will mutually ask your permission b4 venting to you!

• i struggle to perceive my physical self and therefore i will not send you selfies and i do not want to see selfies of you either

maybe once we are more comfortable w each other we can expose our true selves!!!

• i am in a relationship so please dont intend on romantically advancing w me! platonic flirting is welcome

i technically should not be in a relationship since i dont have community so im often extra stressed by an unhealthy attachment to my partner and i split between hating / loving them a lot
i do go to therapy weekly so please know i am working hard to break this cycle among many other things

w all that being said i do not expect you to memorize / immediately respect all of my boundaries -- i just want you to understand and be aware of them (and im sure there will be several we have in common too!)

in the end i do hope that:

• we have one (1) fixation, interest, fandom, or kin source in common
• we can (Occasionally At First) hang out via chats, listening + watch parties, gaming, parallel play etc!

thats it!!!
if all of this sounds okay and if youre still interested in being my friend please feel free to dm me whenever / whatever!!
if i dont get back to you immediately please dont be discouraged -- i have lots of homework throughout the week (kill me!)